called Enche and family in Ipoh today... abang razak & kak hanim were at home, abang kamal & anak beranak belum sampai lagi... they should be there in the afternoon after solat Jumaat... (alaaa... rumah depa tak sampai 1km pun from my parents house...). The twins came back from asrama for the long Labour day wknd, so, depa sure singgah rumah Tok depa ptg2 kang...
(note : labour day...? what labour day in UAE...? kerja, kerja, kerja...!!)
was nice talking to everybody... managed to talk to my dad (who is often out of the house.., atau tido when I call home... hp dia hanya utk dia make calls, good luck if you try to call him at that nbr... haha...)sembang2 jap with my bro, my sis...
Enche tengah gosok kain pelikat Apak utk solat Jumaat... (dah boring2 tak buat apa, Enche duduk atas lantai, then gosok baju.... I can imagine her doing that...).
Hang up, then call my mom on her hp (sebab she can't move around easily, and her hp was next to her at that time...)... sembang2 again, talked about the skin graft...
she really is a bit hesitant in doing the skin graft.... again, sakit katanya... bukan sakit kat tumit/kaki dia (yg perlukan skin graft tuh), tapi sakit kat tempat yang depa akan ambil kulit tuh nanti... (often kulit peha... or may be the backside...)...something stroke my mind during the conversation, and asked a stupid question....
tak boley ambil kulit orang lain ker...?
my mom laughed... boley, tapi ambil kulit orang yg mati ler.... siapa nak bagi kulit utk skin graft....?
my answer... anak2 ramai....?
ishhh tak payah ler... tak confirm lagi perlu tak perlu skin graft tuh, kalau doktor kata boley sambung tanpa skin graft, tak payah ler buat nanti
(hmmm... hepi bebeno ler Enche tu kalo doktor kata camtu...)
in my mind....
tak boley ambil kulit orang lain ker...?
.... siapa nak bagi kulit utk skin graft....?
err... I would... for my mom, I seriously would...
immediately sent an email to my siblings to talk about it.... if we get a skin donor, it will speed up the healing process for my mom (no second wound to take care of when they take the skin from my mom's thigh, and put it at the tumit....)... asked them to check this out, check with the doctor if it is feasible, and what are the requirements... and how long the whole process will take (compatibility test? blood test? any other tests? the actual procedure? healing time for the donor? etc etc...)
and of course, check who is willing to be the donor... i doubt that they don't find anybody among the 5 anak2 yang ada kat Mesia tuh who is willing to donate (it is more of a question whether can or cannot technically...) but in case, none of them can donate, there is always the last one here that we can check. hopefully, one of us can...
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I'm not sure if one can use other's skin for skin graft. What if it's not compatible?
Anyway, if it's possible, we as children would be more then willing to give away our skin to our mum.
agaknyalah Josh... anyhow... told my siblings to check... kalo boley, then it would be good for my mom....
the thing is... we have not been presented with this option before... tu yang semua tak tahu diam terkedu tuh... it has been a normal practive to take the skin from the original patient that nobody has the reflex of asking for a skin donor when it comes to diabetic patients....
KM i'm sure that can be done with today's modern technology. Sebab tu skin is one of those things yang people can pledge to donate when they die (tapi taken from living person tak sure plak) tapi what i really want to say is - MASUK SYURGALAH BAGI SEORANG ANAK YANG BERKORBAN UNTUK IBUNYA - and I wish I could've done the same for my mom's heart...
Johan,
mcm2 rasa bila baca entry ni; takut, sedih & proud of u.
gd idea - harap2 leh guna skin org lain eh - then easier nak jg 1 wound aje..
doakan yg terbaik utk ur mom.
Sorry to hear about your mom's predicament. Let's pray for the best for her.
Kalel... it's a natural thing to do... siapa la tak sayang mak, rite...?
Pinky, thanks... I hope so... it's time to pay back whatever that they (parents) have done when we were small...
Aisyah... InsyaAllah everything should be good... just need to make sure that the wound is well take care of....
KM..bila baca entry ni, terus teringatkan parents sendiri, mcmana agaknya kalau saat ini tiba..blhkah i jd anak yg baik mcm KM and siblings..
Cayoi... tak payah tertanya2... buat aje...!! anyhow, when the time comes, I am sure that you will do the same.... no more thinking2 one... I am very sure that you will do the same...!!
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