They are really serious...!!

today, I was lepaking at home surfing internet... waiting for my "Wah" to come back for raya (Wah is my mom's 1st sister.. aka my nanny, aka my 2nd mom, the person who took care of us when we were small, when my mom & dad went to work carik duit utk anak2... Wah stayed with us until her one and only child/daughter got married. she then moved to her daughter's house... Wah kematian suami masa "Z" - my cousin, was only a few weeks old... after that event, my mom told her to stay with us - with the daughter of course. Wah never re-married, and we had a "younger sister" in the house who is actually our cousin)

out of a sudden, my mom told me that she and my dad wanted to talk to me... very private discussion, even my brother (who was around when my mom told me about the discussion) was not allowed to be around.... my brother jokingly protested...!! apa2 hal panggil dia, mintak tlng itulah inilah, tapi hal2 family dia tak dijemput sekali berbincang.... hehe... well, yeah... he's rite to some extent... atau kes jeles kat adik bongsu nih... kuang kuang kuang.... :)

I was like wondering, aper ker halnya yg depa nak besembang nih...? apa projek baru depa nak buat....? sejak dah bersara lama nih... dah boring tak buat aper, depa pun buat ler projek2 baru.. kebun sayur lah, ternak ayam lah, nursing home la... some last till today (nursing home & kebun sayur), some died due to various reasons (ternak ayam... selalu kena curi, dan memang tak sesuai kat kwsn perumahan nih... a bit smelly...)

guess what...? my mom is damn serious in wanting me to get maried again soon....!! SHE HAS A CANDIDATE FOR ME....!!

basically, a relative, boley...? selama nih aku panggil mak bapak dia Kak "U" and abang "R", kang aku kawin dgn anak dia, tak semena2 aku kena panggil depa "abah & mak"...)... errr... aku & mak dia dua pupu, pangkat anak saudara dua pupu ler nih... quite close relative. my mom & "her" grandmom (my Mak "Y") were cousin & close buddies from small till my Mak "Y" meninggal dunia a few years back... I had high respect for my Mak "Y", (who is the candidate's grandmom...)... really...! one of those very friendly, cheerful makciks (with full of words of wisdom)

back to the candidate : rupa ada, harta ada, agama - oklah (am worse to be frank), keturunan... er Jawa...? haha... Atuk dia Jawa, Opah dia Kerinchi, so Mak dia mix Jawa Kerinchi, bapak dia pure Jawa.... :) ... dia kerja skrng kat kompeni minyak nasional.... bapak dia is one of the big guys dlm kompeni minyak Mesia nih... (err, boley dpt keje baguih kat situ tak lepas nikah nanti...? ahaks...!!!) age difference... slightly less than 10 years, I think, anak sulung... (me bongsu...? abis la aku kena queen control lepaih nih kalau jadik...)

anthr surprising thing... it seems that these parents have alrdy discussed about it and agreed alrdy among themselves... HELLLLOOOOOOO...!! saper yg nak kawin nih...? err, sorry tukar soalan : saper yg nak dikawinkan nih...? my mom said that now it is only up to "her" and me.... ewah, ewah, ewah.... pandai2 ja mak2 penyayang nih... terlebih sayang ler tuh... nak buat camna...

betul ker sanggup dua pupu aku nih terima aku jadik anak menantu...? dia tak tau lagi aku punya perangai camna....!! Pelesit abih...! selama nih, pandai cover depan depa... haha...

tak abis-abis "sayang mak bapak" kat anak2 depa kan...? haha....

so... aper kater survey...?